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How to Overcome Insecurity with your lady.
It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid.
All women are insecure about their asses. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help make her feel better about her ass this is not Bedroom Secrets .
Have her lay on her stomach. Start off by massaging her shoulders and back. Go down and massage her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will try to insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.
Cellulite can be a bad insecurity for some women, most will have it on their thighs,it looks abit like cottage cheese. If she is uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex. Tell her that you didnt even notice that she has any. Act stupid and pretend like you never seen it. Don’t act too stupid, or she will know that you are lying.
Alot of women have a spare tire around their stomach, don’t make her fret over it. Tell her to lie down and that you would like to kiss and lick her tummy as this makes you horny when you are kissing her down there. She will eat this up.
Alot of women will turn out the lights before coming to bed as they are so insecure about their body’s and this is to prevent you from seeing them.Tell her that you want to watch her beautiful body as she has an orgasm. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.
Perfection is something that you are never going to find, as nobody can be perfect, even those lady’s in dvds, mags and on TV are not perfect. No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Imperfections are everywhere.
Give her the bigger picture that everybody including herself has imperfections and that you can go into detail for her about yours if you have to. You need to let your woman know that even though she isn’t perfect you think she is.
I’m not saying you should break down and become manic when you tell her this. Use common sense. Don’t go out of your way to cry or act depressed. She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.
It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. You need to listen to her so that you know what she thinks her faults are. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!
The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself. If you want to have that earth pounding orgasm that floods the room with semen, then you better make her feel comfortable.
Being comfortable around your partner naked is what we are after, she cant perform if she feels uncomfortable. I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. If you were a painter, would you be able to paint a picture if you were very nervous? Would you be able to paint a straight line if there was a bomb going off next to you? No, you wouldn’t be able to.
Breathing excesses are a great way to relax and relieve stess, suggest that you get on to the net and find directions for these which could also help as well. You could add these in before you even talk. Then maybe she wont feel as uncomfortable. Both of you should do this together.
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